I have spent much of my life illustrating mathematical ideas, and scale is never the first thing I decide. Most commonly it stays abstract and there is no scale; it's flexible and I can zoom in and out at will. Sometimes I will choose a scale partway through or towards the end of an explanation, if I want to use a specific analogy, but I can comfortably rescale it to something else - the scale is never fixed.
Interesting to see such a different view.
Of course, I am extra cynical as a number theorist who can't visualize most of my field. I wrote my doctorate on Siegel modular forms, and I can honestly say I have no way to visualize them any further than numbers on a page.
Math is smaller than the smallest and bigger than the biggest.