Then you might want to avoid computers in general: C also sits on a tower of ‘imaginary’ abstractions (binary, gates, functions, allocation, virtual memory…). The computer itself is an abstraction, and sits on top of a teetering tower of other abstractions like electronics, physics, and (if you want to get philosophical about it) discrete objects.

> same bytes packaged differently become entirely different incompatible entities (like std::string vs std::vector<char> vs std::valarray<> etc)

The same bytes simply _are_ (in)compatible with different things depending on semantic context, and C++ is just surfacing that to you. A given slice of linear memory (which is an abstraction, of course) could be representing a heap or a string with the same bytes, and you'd better know which when using them — that information is not stored in the bytes themselves. Your choice is either to represent this in a way that the compiler can check for you, or encode that information in freeform human documentation about how to avoid the error cases that the compiler can no longer help you with.